Friends vs Soulmate

What is the difference between a close friendship and a close relation? Most of us believe that when friendship becomes stronger, it may turn into relationship. The truth is different. Think about the kind of talk you have with your friends. You are always very open about your failures and shortcomings. You are not shy of talking about your problem and asking friends to help. In a close friendship, you expect to know everything about each other.
How about a relationship? We as human beings keep lot of secrets away from our partner. We do not want to tell about our failures and shortcomings. We also try to impress our partner whenever we head the chance. This difference between friendship and relationship is very deep. We calculate our moves in a relationship but are very open in a friendship. We are like a child in friendships but behave like an adult in relationships.
If you remain inside your boundaries in a relationship and not try to change it into a close friendship, you will have longer relationships. Telling all does not help in relationships. Then, if friendship turn out to be in relationship at the wrong time, just forget it. It doesn't work fr a long time.

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